WRITERS BLOCK

So lately I haven't been able to write  anything in my blog. I'm suppose to go to cape town but my friends family has been facing financial problems so there are chances of her not going but I'm scared of not going with her because I think she will see that we weren't able to go because she wasn't able to afford it. I'm sorry  that I haven't been talking fir a while but not a single person has commented on my publishes but I'm being patient because that is what I'm being told. Lol I don't want to start being needy

TOO MANY PRIORITIES PARALYZE US

The stool is the most important thing to an animal trainer because the animal tries to focus on all legs of the stool at once this then overwhelms the animal which makes it weak because its attention is fragmented. well that's the same thing that happens to us humans because we try to take on so many things at once never choosing that is more important or attention is fragmented and we become and if we are that weak will we than be able to finish all the things that we have undertaken. Take an example of a store owner who spends so much time cleaning their store that they forget to open the front door so the customers come in because the owner prioritiesed something that was not their initial plan it prevented their initial plan from succeeding. So what we should always remember is to know what we want and choose things that will help promote our ultimate goal instead of spending time with things that are of no need. Whenever you feel as if you cant do that remember this poem by William .H. Hinson

"He who seeks one thing, and but one, may hope to achieve it before life is done but he who seeks all things wherever he goes must reap around him in whatever he sows,A harvest of barren regret."

P.S everyone should read John. C .Maxwell

my birthday

well i just had my birthday a few days ago and I had a blast I turned 18 and most south africans know what that means but for people in other countries it means i'm at an age when I can legal drink without an adult. I'm excited I finally feel like i'm growing up.

Reputation or Money

Today I was watching a show and it highlighted that topic what would you choose between reputation or money. For people who have worked hard for their reputation the would choose reputation but lets say you are facing financial difficulties would really your reputation something you have built from scratch affect what you need to keep that reputation so now the question is does money help you build your reputation or does your reputation help you get money.

Open your eyes they are great things around you!!!

Today I realised something so my mum just bought a new car it wasnt the car she had aimed for but she loves it to death. After she bought the car we started realising how it was a great car with great features but what we realised the most was how we ignored it it because it was after she had bought it that we saw that a lot of people had it. This shows us how life works because we spend so much time trying to associate ourself with people of different leagues that we forget the person who is below what we are aiming for that causes us not to even try to talk to them. So what I learned today is that open your eyes there are great things around you.

GOOODNIGHT IF YOU ARE FROM SOUTH ARICA

DRIVE IT LIKE YOU STOLE IT

Today I just heard the most funny but true motto its “DRIVE IT LIKE YOU STOLE IT”. It’s not a negative motto I find it very encouraging because if you look at someone who stole a car they want to go as far as possible from the place they stole that car so that is how we should think get as far as possible from where you started because you don’t want to go further than the next thing you know you are going back. I personally know about this because about 2 months ago I started this weight loss programme and I have only lost 4kg and last week I found out that I gained a kilo it takes you back like if look at the weight you started on and the weight you still are its sad. So every time you start something or think of doing something “Drive it like you stole it”.

John.C.Maxwell

So I haven’t told you about my varsity plans they are a bit big but I’m ambitious. I have been planning on joining my varsity SRC (Student Representative Council) it will be hard because I will have to get myself out there but that’s not what I will be talking about I started reading these leadership books my dad has the first one is DEVELOPING THE LEADER WITHIN YOU it‘s by John C. Maxwell  it talks about what people has misinterpreted as leadership this is something he wrote

“A real leader is more than having authority; it is more than having the technical training and following the proper procedures. Real leadership  is being the person others will gladly and confidently follow. A real leader knows the difference between being the boss and being a leader, as illustrated in the following:

·         The boss drives his workers; the leader coaches them.

·         The boss depends on authority; the leader on goodwill.

·         The boss inspires fear; the leader inspires enthusiasm.

·         The boss says ‘I’; the leader says ‘we’.

·         The boss knows how its done; the leader shows how

·         The boss says ‘go’; the leader says ‘lets go’                        

 

I hope that three books down I will know how to tackle leadership but if I was a true leader a whole lot of you who are reading would have subscribed LOL I hope playing the insecure card will help me.

P.S  you guys are about to watch me grow.

PENDOCK UNCORKED

So I'm still getting excited about the fact that my blog has 103 pageviews in total. then my heart just sunk when I saw this blog (pendock uncorked ) it has 7788 pageviews TODAY I dont know whether it's because its one of the times blogs or because it is just that good. all I know right now is that I really need people to view my blog and dont worry I'm taking satire classes in order to impress you guys. I have to go now and read more blogs and see which topics are interesting.